Most of us have experienced times when reality has literally
shifted around us. We've noticed time has slowed down, sped up, or even
stopped completely. Sometimes we notice that our coat, wallet, shoes or
keys aren't where we know we left them -- or we're disconcerted to find
that yet another sock has vanished into the "Bermuda Triangle" of
our laundry room. Reality shifts are these times when we notice things
appearing, disappearing, transforming, or transporting... or changes in the
way we experience time.
What I find particularly fascinating about this phenomenon
is the wide variety of reactions people have when they notice reality
shifting. Just as in Alan Funt's "Candid Camera" television
show, people experiencing reality shifts don't always respond the same way
-- or even in ways we might expect people to react.
In the case of reality shifts, it's quite likely that our
feelings are interconnected with the shifts in reality we are witnessing,
so these emotions may help us find a key to better understanding the
phenomenon of reality shifts.
For example, anecdotal evidence suggests that people who are relaxed when
they discover they have cancer (rather than feeling initially shocked or
angry) are less likely to have spontaneous remissions of their cancers.
To find out how people feel when reality shifts, I designed
and conducted a "How Do You Shift Reality?" survey of 395 people
in April 2000, asking people to answer twenty questions about their reality
shift experiences. One of the questions I asked was:
"When I notice reality shifts, I often feel... "
This survey offered several multiple choice answers to this
question, including a write-in space for people to share additional
comments. When I analyzed these survey results, I was excited to discover
that there are twelve typical types of emotional reactions for people
experiencing reality shifts!
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(1) Curiosity
The most typical emotion that people feel when reality
shifts is curiosity. People typically find themselves wondering,
"WHAT is going on here?!?" when they witness reality shifting
around them. Of the 395 people I surveyed in April 2000, 62% of the
respondents reported feeling curiosity when they noticed reality shifts.
One survey respondent noted that just like Spock (from the old Star Trek
television show) might comment, they often find themselves feeling like
"Hmmm.... interesting!" Even those who are familiar and quite
practiced in the art of intentionally shifting reality expressed a great
deal of curiosity about what's going on when reality shifts. One of these
survey respondents commented, even though "I have learned to control
it (reality shifts) with my many years of magick practice, it only makes me
yearn for more knowledge." Another person commented that they felt
"fascinated - wonder whether we produce existence through will, or has
time been changed?"
(2) Excitement
Reality shifts can be extremely exciting. I've often
experienced dramatic changes, such as a woman across the street from me
vanishing as I looked at her, which have given me goose-bumps once I
realized the significance of such a thing happening! Of the people I
surveyed, 45% indicated that they, too, have felt very excited when reality
shifts. "Yeee - ha!" was one write-in response, which made me
laugh out loud! Others said they felt "encouraged, anxious",
"overwhelmed", and "restless". When the full import of
a reality shift sinks in without being denied, very powerful emotional
responses are often felt. One person wrote that it "depends on the
circumstances, but my reaction is always intense one way or the
other."
(3) Awe
Reality shifts can often feel much like witnessing some of
Nature's most powerful forces at work. Like hurricanes, volcanic
eruptions, floods, and fires, reality shifts remind us of our relatively
humble position in this amazing universe. 37% of the survey respondents
said they felt "awe-struck" by reality shifts. People wrote that
they felt "humbled", "awe-struck by the fact that we do
indeed create time", and that they "suddenly feel small in the
scheme of things". Reality shifts renew a sense of wonder for many
people.
(4) Happiness
The next most common reaction to reality shifts is one of
joy and happiness! 33% of the survey respondents said they feel happy when
reality shifts. "I try to hold on to the moment as long as
possible", wrote one person. Others remarked that reality shifts
leave them feeling, "encouraged", "amused", and
"validated".
(5) Confusion
A less common reaction to reality shifts is one of
confusion. 26% of the people in the April 2000 survey indicated that they
have felt confused by reality shifts. "I think that I'm crazy!",
wrote one person! Typical comments of those reporting feelings of
confusion were of feeling "mystified", "dumbfounded",
"un-rooted", and "dizzy, light-headed, nauseous,
disoriented". One person commented that I "wonder about my
vision", and another remarked that reality shifts are "noticed
usually after the shift or hindsight".
(6) Fear
Fortunately, only a very small percentage of those polled
indicated that they felt frightened by reality shifts. 7% reported feeling
afraid, and wrote comments that reality shifts have made them feel,
"agitated", "anxiety", and "thrilled and
frustrated, 'cause it scares me before I can react appropriately -- cold
and shivery".
(7) Anger
A very small percentage (3%) of those surveyed reported
feeling angry when reality shifts. It's understandable that people might
get upset when things change without warning in seemingly unpredictable
fashion. One person wrote that reality shifts make them feel
"somewhat frustrated, curious, sometimes angry".
(8) Sadness
Sadness is another less typical emotional reaction to
reality shifts. Like anger, we might expect a certain degree of sorrow
when people see things changing suddenly. Only 3% of the survey
participants in the April 2000 survey said that they feel sad when reality
shifts.
(9) Denial
While "denial" was not one of the multiple choices
for how people feel when reality shifts, several people indicated that they
intentionally disregard reality shifts, even when they notice this
phenomenon occurring. "I shut it out of my mind", wrote one
person. "I never seen that happen or maybe I did, but didn't
understand what it was. Do not consider them as anything real. I pass it
off to my being mistaken", commented another. A third wrote in
feeling "a need to rationalize, until I shift it into something that
makes sense". There is another moderately large group of people who
simply don't believe in reality shifts, saying "I haven't seen
them", or "I don't believe in them". In my survey, 6% of
those surveyed reported that they don't experience reality shifts at all.
(10) Gratitude
Another common response to reality shifts is one of
gratitude and appreciation. Many people wrote in comments about feeling,
"grateful", "thankful", honored",
"reassured", "connected", "peaceful",
"fulfilled", and "just glad to be able to see it and feel it
when it happens all around me". I frequently feel grateful when
reality shifts around me, because it overcomes the occasional doubts and
skepticism I sometimes feel that such things can actually happen.
(11) Heightened Awareness
Quite a few people said they feel "alive",
"high", and "aware" as a result of seeing reality
shifts. These people are having what Abraham Maslow called Peak
Experiences. When I first noticed reality shifts, I immediately began to
pay much more attention to my surroundings, since I thought perhaps I'd
been inattentive and that's why I was mistakenly thinking reality had
shifted. What I found was that the more alert and aware I became, the more
likely I was to witness reality shifts! One person commented feeling
"very calm & focused in the moment", while another remarked,
"I become aware of the WOW - "Whole" Other World - beneath
the surface of this one, and feel my spirit stir when I witness veils drop
and lift. " Others responded, "I read the signs to my reality --
I feel aware", and "Very, very interested!!!"
(12) Acceptance
Yet another typical emotional response to reality shifts is
one of calmly accepting this experience as part of normal life. This group
of people is having what Abraham Maslow referred to as Plateau Experiences,
as they become familiar with what was once a peak experience. The range of
the feelings of acceptance in this group of individuals runs the gambit
from "indifferent" and "ambivalence" all the way to
"calm", "mellow", and "at peace with it because I
understand it". These are the reactions of people who are "just
used to it", who feel "that it was to be expected" when they
witnessed reality shift. One person remarked, "It happens so often, I
just accept it", and another commented, "I just accept them as
normal". Others clearly feel that reality shifts are not unnatural at
all, saying, "I feel that these are natural occurrences for me and am
not alarmed", and "I feel as if things are as they should
be".
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When I look back at all these reactions, I'm amazed to find
that I've experienced most of them myself. I hope that people who are just
discovering this phenomenon will be reassured that most people find reality
shifts to be exciting, awe-inspiring, and life-affirming in a very deep and
profound way.
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