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Which Power Do You Honor?
by Cynthia Sue Larson


I had the most amazing experience today as I was out and about, running errands downtown. I was surprised to be unable to find a parking space, since I usually park in front of my destination, regardless how crowded the streets may be. I'd been circling the block for about thirty minutes when I spotted a van on the corner ahead of me about to pull out of its parking spot. As it moved out, I glided right on in... to see a sleek BMW sedan just ahead flashing it's blinker as if it had been waiting to back into the exact same spot. The flashy BMW slowly pulled back alongside my car, and we both lowered our windows as soft flurries of rain drizzled down from the sky. The BMW's driver was a 20-something Asian male wearing black sunglasses, who crisply announced, "I was waiting for this spot."

I replied, "I was waiting for this spot, too. I didn't see you there -- I've been circling this block for thirty minutes."

The Asian fellow furrowed his brow and looked very annoyed as he said, "I've been circling for thirty minutes, too." As I looked at the young man, I saw another myself. A younger, male, Asian version of myself, perhaps, but I had a very clear sense that our roles could easily have been reversed. Only a moment of time had passed as I gazed into the depths of his Ray-Bans, yet I felt that there was only one course of action that would give me peace of mind; to relinquish the parking spot. I replied, "You can have this spot. It's yours," and pulled forward to watch the young man park his BMW there. I sighed as I noticed he hadn't even said, "Thank you," no doubt because he was sure that he was right and I was in the wrong.

As I began to drive around the block one more time, I bit my lip and asked Spirit, "WHY is this happening to me? I just don't get it." It was so strange for me to be deprived of a parking spot for thirty minutes -- this had never happened to me before! As I passed the BMW in its corner spot on my circuit around the block, I noticed it's license plate for the first time: "BM POWER." Suddenly, I understood -- and laughed out loud! When I was growing up, "BM" was a word that children used when they were talking potty talk, and seeing it proudly displayed as a source of power was just too funny! Naturally, the owner of BMW was most likely intending to demonstrate pride in his vehicle, but the wonderful and oh-so-timely message for me finally put my entire frustrating parking experience in perspective.

You can't let the @#$% win the game, regardless how much power it might think it has. After all, you are always the one who chooses how you respond to every situation -- your feelings and your attitudes are your greatest riches, and there's no way that any kind of "BM POWER" (no matter how trying the situation may seem) can ever be greater than love!

Within seconds of this divine revelation, a car on the block ahead of me pulled out so I could park my car. In that instant I knew for sure that it really is that simple. All you have to do is decide which power you will honor in your life.




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