Q: Hi Cynthia, My closest friend & I are always looking for & expecting what we call "Syncs", in our daily lives. We joyfully embrace them and always are thankful for them. There is something about me that attracts people. I am just an average looking, middle aged woman so it can't be my appearance that is the drawing factor. The same thing happens over and over....I used to wonder about it, but now I just expect it to happen, and it does. No matter where I go...on a walk by myself in the woods, or in a store that hasn't seen a customer all day...within a short time, other people start showing up. Just yesterday, I was the only customer in a candy supply store. The clerk told me that he had sent the other salesperson home earlier because business was "dead". I was only there probably 5 minutes when 6 customers came in and the clerk had his hands full waiting on them. I stuck around until they left and asked him in a teasing way if he wouldn't like to hire me to come in and just stand around so he'd have some business. I told him that I am a "people magnet" and he laughed and agreed with me. I am not complain or bragging about this but, I do wonder what causes this.
-- Charlotte

A: Dear Charlotte,
Thanks so much for writing! What you describe is one of the many benefits of having a very large, positive, healthy energy field. Your outgoing, personable disposition imbues your aura with a very inviting quality that magnetically attracts people. This has been happening to me all my life, and it happens the most noticeably when I'm feeling particularly energized. When I'm feeling high-energy, my aura extends a good fifteen to twenty feet from my body, compared to three to six feet when I'm not feeling all that great. When I wish to keep a low profile or not attract crowds, I bring my energy field in close to me. The closer in I bring it to my body, the more "invisible" I am, to the point that I have at times gone completely unnoticed... as if I was invisible. More typically, I notice that wherever I go, a crowd of people follows me in the door, and that quiet shops and businesses get quite busy as soon as I show up.
lots of love,
-- Cynthia

Q: Dear Cynthia,
I'm having difficulty enjoying myself, i feel like everything is fake? Believe me, i have perfectly good reason to enjoy myself, ive made some pretty impressive reality shifts. Any Advice? Should i just immerse myself in it all?
-- A

A: Dear A,
It sounds like you've got a strong energy field, and are therefore able to rather easily get what you desire... based on your ego... without necessarily ever feeling the deeper benefit of it all. The key to feeling real and that everything around you is real is to regain connection with your high self, or spirit. This will give you a sense of being your full self, and you will immediately notice that all your senses are sharper and that you feel a tremendous passion for living. You will also find that as you let your high self/spirit guide you, things may not "go your way," but the twists and turns you encounter in life will be interesting, informative, and feel much more real and meaningful.
lots of love,
-- Cynthia